When I was a virgin, a more experience friend once said to me, in a now politically incorrect way, “Fat chicks need sex too.” That stuck with me, but I never took the initiative with them.

Later, another BBW took my virginity. It was a weird case of her chasing after me for weeks. She was in an open relationship with my housemate at the time. I didn’t want to get into an awkward situation, and I was still under the impression my first time should be “meaningful.” Thankfully, she was relentless and wore me down. Then she wore me out. When she came into my bedroom and removed her top, I just couldn’t resist. She was on me so fast, I never got a chance to take my socks off. So that’s a little embarrassing.

A bisexual BBW friend of mine once recounted that she loved sex with others like her. I would have loved to bang both of them myself. Preferably at the same time.

My current main lover is also a BBW and I find her gorgeous, sexy, alluring, and more. The feel of her warm, soft flesh. Her massive tits. Her plump ass, it feels so good to bounce against when we do it doggy style. And she appreciates that I appreciate her. It makes for a wonderful feedback loop.

Whether it’s more cushion for the pushin’, or you just like your lovers with a little meat on their bones, there are lots of reasons to love BBW.

No one should feel unsexy because of their weight. That’s not to say you are going to be everyone’s type, no one is. But if you look in the right places, you’ll find the people who do think you’re their type. Ladies, the trick is finding the right other people. That’s the trick for everybody.