DADDY DOM / little girl (DDlg)
DDlg is an acronym that stands for “Daddy Dom Little Girl”. DD/lg is a type of BDSM relationship where the dominant partner takes on the role of a nurturing OR strict caregiver (ie: Daddy), while the submissive takes on the role of a youthful “child” (ie: Little Girl). – ddlgplayground.com
Often the players in these roles take on ages younger or older than their actual age. This is more drastically demonstrated in AB/DL or “Adult Baby / Diaper Lover” roleplays where adults revert to an infantile state that needs to be taken care of. Dom / sub relationships are often age based since the younger person in the relationship is dependent upon the older to tell them what to do and often dominate the interactions.
Adult babies are a subtype of “little” within age play kinks both online in chat forums and in person. This group of people often go by the acronym AB/DL or ABDL for Adult Baby / Diaper Lovers. Adult babies roleplay as babies, often reverting back to a completely infantile state requiring their every need to be taken care of by their dominant. Often, this means sucking on a pacifier, having a baby-themed bedroom full of toys and cribs and even potentially wearing a diaper which is cleaned and taken care of by their dominant. The latter isn’t a fixture in all age play or even all adult baby play, but many adult babies and their dominants enjoy diaper play for the intimacy and trust that it enforces. Diaper play can also exist as a fetish within itself both for submissives and dominants. Adult babies will often, laugh, play and gurgle as real babies would, and this includes crying and throwing tantrums too which will require punishments.
The dominant for many of those who enjoy age play and adult baby play will be those of a “daddy dominant”, a specific type of dominant that likes to take on the role as their submissive’s carer. This doesn’t always mean they will literally pretend to be the father of their submissive, but will often mean that they take on a caring role for their sub, often taking responsibility for their needs and enforcing punishments when required too. This use of reward and punishment is often one of the main factors that age players enjoy, for the breaking of rules, spankings and groundings can provide a joy within roleplaying that it otherwise can’t as an adult.
While it might be more obvious for a submissive to be the one regressing in age for sexual enjoyment, it is often the case that a little is the one who acts as a dominant in the relationship. This could be that a little girl (potentially a brat) runs circles around their daddy, making them buy them things and throwing tantrums to get their way, or even an age player roleplaying as a teen seducing an older man on chat forums for their own satisfaction. Like all other kinky relationships, there is no rule for what is “normal” and every relationship is entirely different and unique.
WHAT IS AGE PLAY?
Age play is a form of kinky relationship that involves roleplaying, typically with one partner continuing to act as the mature adult they are, whereas one reverts back to a younger age, sometimes only a few years while oftentimes decades back to childhood or even being a baby. Sometimes age play can involve pretending to be far older than you are, such as an elderly person who is weak and often gets confused, but it is far more common to pretend to be younger than you are than older. While age play doesn’t have to be sexual, with many people merely enjoying the freedom and lack of stress and responsibility once they’re “little” again, oftentimes age play is sexual and is a roleplay used to intensify sexual relations, often while utilizing dominant/submissive power dynamics too. Often, it is used as a tool to intensify D/s elements of the relationship and to make each individual more comfortable and freer within that specific role. E.g., a male dominant acting as a “daddy dominant” may find it easier to punish their “little” if they are taking on the role of a parental figure.
Age play is itself an umbrella to reference a wide variety of different relationships and kinks both in person and on online chat forums, and can range from simply calling someone “daddy” in a playful way to pursuing a MILF (Mother I’d Like to Fuck). It also isn’t something that is just enjoyed within the bedroom. BTW you should check out our Younger for Older forum when you have a chance.
For many couples, it is a way to explore and have fun in the act of having sex but they then revert to typical D/s relationships or even vanilla relationships outside of partaking in sex. However, for some, the age play is a fundamental part of the relationship itself and isn’t a performance to be enjoyed only through sex, but also in everyday life outside of the bedroom.
While age play, like all BDSM, must happen between consenting adults only, the specifics of the play can understandably make many people outside of the scene uncomfortable, with many believing that in order to enjoy age play, the dominant (and perhaps the submissive too) is sexualizing children and therefore could be considered a pedophile. However, due to the fact that only consenting adults take art in the play means that it is entirely exempt from pedophilic practices, and that this is merely a misunderstanding from those outsides of the scene.
WHY DO PEOPLE AGE PLAY?
People may enjoy age play for many of the reasons that people enjoy BDSM and dominant/submissive relationships. However, there is an element of age play that allows for easier spankings and better role playing, therefore making it easier for both doms and subs to submit to their preassigned role within the relationship and act accordingly. Similar as with typical dominant and submissive relationship, the dom (typically a “daddy” figure) sets rules for their “little” that enforces they are looked after and remain safe – such as a specific diet, certain clothes and bedtimes, either in person or on chat forums. Many are drawn to being looked after this way even as adults, reminded of what it was like to be little and not have to care for themselves as adults tend to do. It is often a cathartic experience for those having come out of abuse who are looking for the freedom to feel safe and be silly again, and others merely find it fun to roleplay and enjoy all the fun and games related to being a child again.
When it comes to the enjoyment of the dominant, they likely enjoy much of the benefits of being a dom that can be found in different forms of BDSM – thereby being in charge, the control they have over their partner, and the knowledge they are looking out for their partner and taking care of them. However, being a daddy in age play also allows for further creativity such as worldbuilding. People often try to find mental or emotional issues within those who like to age play, believing they may be broken or ill in some way, but it can also be true that sometimes people just enjoy having fun and being a little silly, the feeling of being looked after or looking after someone enjoyable and self-affirming.
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