Chat Rules

What is and is not allowed in the chat rooms.

Last updated 19 September 2026. If anything here is unclear, get in touch.

While these rules address the most common situations, they may not cover every possible scenario. As such, BDSM Sex Chat Moderators have the authority to take appropriate action to maintain order and ensure the smooth functioning of the chat rooms. Violating any of these rules may result in an immediate ban, and users are not entitled to a warning.

The rules

  1. You Must Be 18+
  2. No Spamming / Flooding / Trolling
  3. All People In Images Must Be 18+
  4. No Links To Other Chats
  5. No Affiliate Links
  6. Don’t Post Phone Numbers
  7. No Racist Messages
  8. The absence of a specific rule does not imply permission. Moderators may take action on any account for conduct that undermines the safety, integrity, or enjoyment of BDSM Sex Chat, regardless of whether the behavior is explicitly described in these rules.

Each room also has its own theme. It is your responsibility to know it and to stay on topic for the room you are in.

General etiquette

  • Always obtain clear consent before engaging in any activity. Don’t assume – respect others’ boundaries to avoid any issues or potential bans.
  • Avoid typing in all caps consistently, as it can come across as shouting.
  • If you private message someone and they do not respond, refrain from sending multiple messages. Do not circumvent a member’s attempt to block you from contacting them.
  • All rooms are in English only except in specific rooms where it explicitly states other languages are permitted.
  • No Gold Farming: Do not create multiple accounts or keep them active in order to artificially accumulate Gold Coins. This is considered exploitation and will result in action against your account.

What happens when a rule is broken

Do not argue with or question a moderator when you are asked to modify your behavior. Moderators are too busy to deal with each individual case and will likely ban you so it can be dealt with by ways of an appeal. Follow the moderator instructions to avoid being banned.

If you are banned, you are only able to return on a successful appeal. Do not create a new account to access the chat room. You can appeal in the appeals section of the message board.

These rules apply to your chat room profile’s photo, background image, about me section and your mood section. Do not directly or indirectly use it to target users in any way in the chat using your bio/about me or in your mood.

If you have been banned

You can appeal a ban, kick, mute or room block in the appeals section of the message board. Do not create a new account to get around it.