gracious21
New member
I'm am exploring how to create a d/s dynamic as a dominant, with my partner who fears losing her power. I am clear that I like to be dominant sexually but hold back in everyday life. She fears losing her power if she is submissive in everyday life (responds a little in sex) but I feel I need to work towards some sort of lifestyle which will make her secure with her anxious attachment. I am more of an avoidant which stresses her out. In the power exchange I am ready to offer to stay not run away in return for her consenting to my disciplining her in cases of bad behaviour such as rage or more trivial things like the bedroom at shambles when I return from work. She gets really anxious and I'd like to explore how BDSM scenes might support her through this.