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LilTeddy

LilTeddy

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Hi all,

I decided to make a post in the forum since it seems a bit empty right now. I'm asexual, so really just looking for intimacy, but a lot of those intimacy triggers overlap with some bdsm dynamics like petplay or abdl/little. A bit of an anomaly I know. If none of that sounds interesting to you, I think we can still get along. Over all I think I'm pretty chill and reserved, but like cracking jokes. Not sure how well that will translate over to the forum though haha. Actually, does the forum audience and chat audience overlap completely? Or are there people who prefer the forum over the chat? Anyway, thanks for reading.
 
Welcome to the forum @LilTeddy I agree the forum does need more activity at the moment. Though bear in mind the site has only been live since about February. I think is it slowly building up and look forward to when there are decent numbers on both sides.
If you want my opinion, we're all anomalies. I know the dynamic of My Babygirl and me would not fit into anyone's category or well anything really. We do have shades of the lifestyle but she is not a submissive and I am not a Dominant. We are what we are and don't care if that doesn't fit anyone else's ideas.
It can be tricky making any joke in text only, make good use of the emojis to really get your point across.
On other sites I've used there is a certain overlap between chat and forum (and stories) but that is made more difficult here by having separate log ins. However, some will prefer chat and rarely if ever post on the forum and vice versa. If other experiences are any guide the forum will be the place with the lowest occupancy.
Good to see you here and I'm sure My Babygirl and I will see you about in chat too.
Hope you find everything you're looking for.
 
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